I remember the words "for better or for worse" as if it was yesterday. So blissfully in love, the thought of "worse" never entered my mind. It would always be better, every single day from this day forward yadda, yadda, yadda.
Today I watched a couple who were so committed to this concept, I could only admire a love like theirs and believe in my heart that I would be capable of such selfless devotion. In their early 60's, she looked great for her age, had a fantastic personality and looked pretty stylish in her denim jacket. Her husband was a very kind gentleman, not in the best of shape, sincere, innocent and kind but suffered from Alzheimer's and was confused very easily.
I saw this woman care for her husband and make sure he was never out of sight so that he could remain calm and get through his dental visit. When it came time to make another appointment, she consulted her schedule to make sure it did not interfere with getting him bathed and dressed in the morning or feeding him breakfast.
I can't even begin to imagine this woman's life and would be lying if I said it didn't scare me to think about what she has to go through on a daily basis. At the same time, I am thankful that she is the woman she is and that this man has a true partner who is committed to his well being "til death do they part".
On June 1, 1991, I took my wedding vows and sincerely meant every word. Sickness and in health, good times and bad and for better or for worse. But as I reflect on them today, I realize that I don't look at things from a "for worse" perspective because as long as we have the love we committed to all those years ago, every day will be better than the one before.
Today, on this 23rd of June 2011 I am grateful for a lifelong partner to grow old with and for all the couples who have inspired me with their own beautiful love stories.
Peace & Love,
Mandy
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